Leadership is all about decisions. Decisions that have to be made, decisions that affect the future of your organization, decisions that will leave some people happy and some people angry.
When you are in leadership those moments of decision can feel very lonely, even if you're making them with a team. That's part of the price of leadership. You are being called to make decisions consistently that are in the best interests of the organization. When it comes to the church world, you are often making decisions that you (and your team/elders/etc.) have determined are in the best interest of the church and the people. The problem is that those decisions are often based on what people need, not necessarily what they want. Because of that, you have to be sensitive to God's leading and you have to have a deep resolve and clarifying vision.
At The Journey we have had a season of decisions. Some are easy, some are hard. Some you get right, others you may get wrong. But a leader has to make them anyway. You celebrate the right ones, learn from the wrong ones, and own up when you things didn't work like you had hoped or planned.
But, if you aren't willing to make the tough calls, and you aren't willing to come to some conclusions, you'll never make the decisions that you need to make, and your organization will get stuck. You can't wish and hope the tough decisions away. So, it's better to deal with them sooner than later. What decisions do you need to make today? In your family, in your organization, in your church? Seek God, seek Godly counsel, be clear on the vision, and then do what's needed.