That's what I want to tell people all the time. Because of who we are at The Journey we will get lots of people that, honestly, have made a mess of their lives. Maybe it's not all their fault, but there have been numerous choices that have been made that led them down a path and to a destination they never intended.
That person will then decide they need God in their life, they want to begin a relationship with Jesus and they want to know what do they do now about all these problems in their life. Insert "Yeah I know, it sucks!". Not the best spiritual advice, right?
Except, that it's true. Can God turn things around? Definitely. Can God bring peace, and comfort, and hope? I know it, and I've seen it. But, will everything just get better overnight? I doubt it. We still have to deal with the consequences of a lifetime of bad choices. And that doesn't get better overnight - usually it will include a lot of pain and difficult decisions, and heartache.
But, that shouldn't discourage you. Because the corner has been turned. You're beginning a legacy of making right choices. And, you have a church, and more importantly, a Savior who will walk through it with you. We can't make it all better, but we can be in it with you. It's a marathon not a sprint. But, we're also living in the sprint, not the marathon. Eternity is coming, where there will be no more pain, or tears, or sorrow.
So, I'm sorry you're going through what you're going through. I know it sucks. But, hang in there - we're in it with you, keep trusting and following Jesus!